Miracles and Patience in a Spiritual Life
We have all heard the overused idiom “patience is a virtue”, however if you think about it that’s quite an idiotic thing to say only by itself. Patience about what? That something good will happen? That if you wait long enough circumstances will change? If you have no pattern or trend to base your decision to be patient, then you could be waiting for all eternity and get no results.
I am not talking about that type of patience. The patience I am referring to has to do with opening yourself up to miracles in everyday life. The patience I am talking about is only 20% of the equation.
So what is the other 80%? Here goes:
50% Faith + 30% Guided Action + 20% Patience = Miracles!
Let me clarify what each of these terms mean as all of these words have lost their meaning due to overuse.
Faith: Faith is the knowingness that your life is being guided by the all pervading intelligence that most of us call God. That you are part of God, experiencing life in a human body, going through a great adventure the end of which is merging back to where you came from. It is the true knowing (not just a belief, which is only the minds working hypotheses, a fill in the blank where knowledge is not available) that you are not your body, you are not even your mind, you are definitely not what you have accumulated in this lifetime or your degrees or relationships. It is the knowing that you are beyond all of that, you are part of the Great Spirit, of God, participating in this illusion called physical life and playing a part in a cosmic drama. Faith is knowing that your role in this enormous drama is more than just your personal needs and desires. That there is more to this story than what your conscious, thinking, rational, analytical mind can understand. Faith is knowing that you are being guided, you always have been, you always will be.
Guided Action: If you truly understand the above and actually have faith, then you have already experienced direct communication from God. You have received signs and heard the voice of God in many ways; sometimes through people, sometimes through books, sometimes through dreams, or sometimes through one of the countless many ways that God chooses to communicate with us. You may have chosen to ignore it, you may have doubted it or you may have followed it, but whatever is the case, if you have FAITH, you are aware of the guidance…
When you have stood in the cross roads of life and asked God what should I do, invariably God gives you a sign and speaks softly in your heart about the right path to take. When you listen to that guidance communicated through synchronicities and teachers and butterflies and stars in the sky… and you take action based on that inspiration, you have completed the second step. This is guided action. This is asking for help at every cross road of your life because you realize that you (your conscious ego mind) simply don’t know what is the best course for to take since you cannot see the infinite interconnection between all things through all eternity. It is waiting for the answer and then when you absolutely feel the right way in your heart, taking the guided action.
Patience: Far from waiting for things to change, patience in a spiritual life is remembering the saying of King Solomon “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” It is knowing that sometimes what is waiting for you is so much bigger and better than what you want right now that it’s not even funny. It’s realizing that everything has a perfect time to unfold, that all that our heart desires will be fulfilled, but before it is fulfilled we have to learn a lesson, we have to grow, and we have to become ready to receive what is waiting for us. Like children we want the candy NOW, but the ultimate Teacher knows if you give the child the treat before he has learnt his lesson, he cannot even appreciate what he has received. Patience is realizing that the whole universe is revolving around EACH of us. And all that we want, all that we seek, all that we ask for will all come true, but we need to grow first. That is the purpose of this life.
Patience is a word we use because our mind cannot handle the word SURRENDER. Surrender can neither be taught nor explained. True surrender is falling in love with the Divine Beloved. It is being One. Words are inadequate here so I will stop. Those of you who understand need no explanation, those of you who don’t will have to make your own journey into understanding this.
Patience is resting into the knowingness that at the right time, in the most perfect way, the most perfect outcome will manifest your hearts desires. It is simply having faith, asking for guidance, taking the actions as guided, then resting in joy for you know… there is nothing to rush, nothing to push, never anything to push, nothing to struggle, nothing to wait for. Its simply KNOWING that… what will unfold will be nothing short of miraculous.
Miracles: Miracles are Gods gifts to us. They are bending of time, space, cause and effect. They are the most improbable happening in the most extraordinary way. They are the whole universe coming together to give you what you want (or sometimes way beyond what you ever asked for). Miracles are divine candies; a way of God laughing and saying to us “There you go! Look how I bent all rules for you because you are my favorite child!” Miracles are Gods way of showing his (her?) love to us. But then again, these are words we use to explain miracles because our language has no proper words to explain what it really is. It’s a natural way the universe works, like the sun rising in the east, when you understand the deeper secrets of reality.
So one more time, here is the formula for you to create some real magic and miracles in this amazing journey called life. Write it down somewhere where you can see it every day:
50% Faith + 30% Guided Action + 20% Patience = Miracles!
I hope this helps all of you to verbalize a little better what you may have always known in the depths of your heart.
For those of you a little lost after reading my words or need some help to begin, I have one word for you: Meditate.
Always with you on the journey back home…
Lotsa love,
Shafin
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Shafin–Thank you so much. The last few years of my life has been carried by my Faith. However, your writing above changed my perspective of Faith and Patience–you have made clear what has been missing in my soul and perspective. I love to say that ‘the condition is not the condition” meaning simply because something looks one way does not mean it is really that way. You have confirmed not only this but that I am exactly where I need to be in this Journey. I packed up 2 months ago and moved 2500 miles away from my family and friends to a place I’ve always desired to be and where I know few souls. I valued the journey here and experienced many miracles as a result. Once I got here and my so called reality hit- I forgot about true patience and faith…which brought me here in the first place. Thank you for the reminder!!!
Shena Medley
“Living my dreams….on purpose”
Thank you once again Shafin. This one makes a lot of sense. I think patience is one of the main things I was missing.
Troy. Sydney, Oz.
Hello Shafin, what a wonderful blog post! I really enjoyed the explanation of what patience and surrender is. Many times I have wondered about surrender, because there is a very fine line between surrender and giving up. Even surrender seems very often to go against everything we’ve taught especially about control. Most of us are consumed by the desire to have perfect control over our life, but things do not always work out in the linear way we have predicted. Part of the problem arises from not being able to see what comes next, and part of the problem comes from a feeling of separation from god and lack of trust.
Thanks again Shafin,
Your timely wisdom I always find applicable to where I’m at in the game. Often unerringly so. I’ll redo the math 50:30:20 and press on…
Zenno, Japan
Thanks so so much for reminding me the reality and one ultimate fact!!!
Sry for i have copied this message to my blog: http://redefineyourlife.blogspot.com/
I strongly felt tht this message shud b forwarded and passed own to the deserved..
thanks bro…
Surrender equals patience equals faith equals truth. I finally stopped waiting for “prince charming” when I realized that God is my true love. We, humans being, are capable of mirroring God within to each other if we are willing. This is falling into love. Truly we fall in love with each other’s goodness (God) within. The material world incorrectly confuses and distracts us into thinking that it is real and that what is inside is make believe. I have stopped trying to change the world or even to fight evil. To fight evil is to be distracted by it… an ego trip. Now I wait for God to show me the way. I still hope for a material world partner but I no longer feel alone or vulnerable or fearful. My faith is strong and it is for God and to be good that I long. Thank you for keeping me withing your sacred circle. My love to you.
Thank you for that! I have people all around me that are receiving miracles and moving forward with their lives and careers. I’m at a seeming standstill and I don’t know why. I realize thought, that I don’t have to know why. All I have to know is that God has me and that he’s going to manifest the plan and purpose for my life in due season. I have to keep my eyes off of what other people are doing and keep my eyes on God. After all, he is the only one that really help me. I’m grateful!
Thank you for your timely post. To me it serves as a reminder, yes god speaks! In the journey, it is a road anything but straight. The inner struggles that I face at the moment, I am anything but Patience and/or Present. And I seek to change that.
There is great wisdom and inspiration in your words. I read them and they have redefined my reality. I’ll read them again and again to make them sink as deep as possible into my consciousness to become a part of me. This formula should be learned from early age. Thank you!
Difinitive summation of 80 – 20 principle and how awareness can redifine your reality !!! Keep up the great flow of thoughts…
Have been too busy and too impatient to read the email prior to this date!! Have been too busy and impatient to meditate! Have been too busy and too impatient to surrender!! Being too busy and impatient means I lose faith!Being too busy and too impatient means I become misguided!
Thanks for this message, read it after meditating! Just goes to show!! I surrender again, faith and patience returns. Thankyou you have confirmed what I know but in this crazy world I often too easily forget.
Jools, Nottingham, England
Faith is a gift and miracles happen everyday.
The way God speaks to us is not really in words most of the times.To guide us to our destination sometimes unexplainable things will happen. that is very clear to me now.
thank you Shafin.
thank you safin my heart is full of love for you there is no word to thank you this knowledge will change my life and i will see the purpose this body has sent
Shafin thannk you sooo much for your wisdom, it has givin me insight and renewed hope. you see i have been praying for my 14 month old baby boy who was picked up by cps in california, the little was being bounced around from house to house and unfortunatly picked up at a dope house left by his mother, i am going to court this friday july 31 driving up from arizona his mother was tested and found with a dirty ua and is fighting to get him back , he is consitered legally blind and my current girlfrien works with people with disability's, I beliveit is GOD in action extra prayers would be greatly appreciated… your friend Oliver.
All my prayers are with you! Have faith. Miracles have no size or boundary. Keep taking the next step in the right way and all things will work out in the most perfect way.
Lotsa love,
Shafin
This is so true with alot of people!
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Shafin, Thank you so very much! Your words have hit home for me, in that I now have those "puzzle pieces", that I've discovered along the way, now fitting together. God has shown me through the years about patience, faith, His/her desire to guide me, etc. But, I was always confounded by my ego. I was led to this article because, as I now realize, I am now ready for the next step. And that step is to "Let go, and let God". I've all along been frustrated by the thinking "What am "I" doing wrong?" and "What do 'I' have to do next?" Thinking it was all about "Me". But now I am at peace knowing that God's is there to take me by the hand and lead me where we both want me to be. And now all I have to do is ask for his/her guidance, listen patiently for the answer/s, and move boldly forward knowing He/She is with me!
Thank You!
I read them. I really enjoyed & It's a great words. thank u shafin.
A HUGE THANK YOU
So beautifully said! It just puts all the missing pieces into the puzzle and confirms so much of what I was just beginning to realize recently. Especially the part about patience. I can not even count how many times I made a mistake by trying to push things forward and managed to chase everything I desired away from me. It was a long journey for me to finally acknowledge that lack of patience was one of the major reasons of my unhappiness in life. Thank you very much for making everything so clear for me!
Shafin- I liked the article about patience. It seems to me one of the keys is is to be able to separate the perceived from the perceiver. The perceived being "your conscious,thinking,rational.analytical mind" The perceiver being "…[that part of you] …[that is]….part of the Great Spirit of God". Anyway-my take on it for what it is worth.M
hi Shafin, we myself and my husband are at cross road ihave seen miracles iam aproof iwas detected with blood cancer i refused to belive i have more purpose in life i was given a new type of treatment for 1month got cured nowi take few vitmines to keep me going .ihadcompletely surru ndered to god iwanted tosettle in one place idid nothavethe patience now i know yu areaagifted teacher usha
hi Shena…
This is Chandu from India.I would like to know more abt ur experience n How u have achieved ur goal bcos i have similar goal. U can write me at hi2delight@yahoo.co.in
INDEED!
We speak the same language Shafin! How wonderful to know a bearer of light in you! Indeed life is a LOVE AFFAIR…first and foremost with our very SOURCE…and in TOTAL TRUST, based upon true knowledge of ourselves…we unfold ever most gracefully!
LOVE is what LIFE is all about! WE are LIFE”S guests…LIFE being the host. It is only in realizing the tremendous and infinite beauty of our Host, whose purest intention is PERFECT LOVE…how then can we not trust in total confidence. Peace and love we will behold as we unfold to LIFE’S purest intention for our lives!
To sum it all up…JOY we are- within and without! Gratitude and praise to our Creator, our Host, become our constant thought as we creatively live every single moment of our lives. Our life becomes HIS song. Yes, we rest…but still, as we remain constantly contemplative of our true Source…there is NOTHING we lack. Right where we are is where we must be. Peace and Love sustains us. The ‘Promise Land’ is within our very midst to be made manifest at Life’s appointed time. And all the rudiments necessary for it’s total unfoldment could not be made any better. Just enjoy the LOVE AFFAIR, with utmost faithfulness and love….knowing we are ONE- with the EVER LIVING ONE. His intention for each and everyone of us can not be short of perfect. Jewels in the making we all are…for HIS CROWN – in this infinite, mighty and incredibly beautiful universe which is ALL HIS and HIS creation! WE are meant to SHINE!
KEEP SHINING SHAFIN!
NAMASTE!
Thank you Shafin for your beautiful words full of wisdom and inspiration.My heart is full of love for you.You realy have this knowledge,this soulfulness to touch every heart and soul.Everything is clear and profound.
When I surrender everything is easier and better.I am learning every day to be more patient and I expect mirracles.
THANKS AGAIN FOR SHARING YOUR WISE WORDS AND DO KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK YOU HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH!! GOD bless you and yours
Thanks again, Dear Shafin, your word "patience" went straight to my heart! A word I needed to hear. Many Blessings to you in this wild "dance". In Light & Love ,Don
DEAR LOVELY SHAFIN,
First of all,I am thankful and grateful of yours work you are doing for the wondering people in the world,really you are great, I am not send you my comment,I studying your article and got great knowledge from you and my wish is that we both will keep continue each other my ,I get as much knowledge as i can from ,I thanks GOD, and YOU, that GOD place our meeting is bless of GOD,and prey for your long life to GOD to keep you in this as much as GOD CAN<So we the people enlightenfrom YOU,
thanks GREATS<GOD BLESS >WE will meet again and again,
yours loving friend ZAHID>
Perfect formula to experience Divine intervention. Very practical and inspiring.
dearest,
honestly i cannot find words to express my contentment in finding you as my guide to ultimately comprehend the meaning of my oween life (borfn june 14, 1934)
without really understand why god has ‘drowned’ me with all of his blessings, mercy, love, and what not (i am a journalist with over 45 years of working experience) have beeen brought around the places in the world i never dare to imagine or even dreamt of before. this will only could mean that onky by his love i am being guided to thank him for ‘a most pleasant wordly journey’ as a preparation for my most ultimate ‘wayback’ to the most beloved – the mightest and loveliest harbor for all of us.
it's so good. thanks
Thank you.. You have a gift.. thank you for sharing it….
Thank you Shafin, for doing what you are doing. I am going through a very difficult stage in my life, and feel all alone as I go through it. I am glad that there are people like you out there that take the time to try and help others. Your message was "inspiring". You gave me HOPE.
Margaret
Praise be to the Almighty to have someone like you, Shafin! You brought the missing pieces to my jigsaw puzzle…….patience and surrender! ….that gives the "spark" to my somewhat dimmed life. Thank you & remain blessed!
thank you very much for the input that you have shared to me.. God bless
Dear shafin, thanks a lot for this wonderful teaching it’s really mean so much for me in this journey called life, infact i’m always happy when ever i received your mail cos’ i’m learning much from you how i wish that one day i will have opportunity to see you face to face…. well there is time for everything i believe when the time come it will happen there is nothing to rush, once again i have to say thank you very much for opening my life up for everyday Miracles i have make another step foward with 50%Faith + 30% Guided Action + 20% Petience = my Miracles .
from your student Prosper
One of my lessons I have been learning is to surrender. For a long time I had that lesson repeated to me in many ways and then I had to be patient as the Universe broke it down for me. Today I am understanding surrender more and more in ways that I wonder sometimes why it took me so long to get it. Thanks for the reminder.
GOD bless ya!
You always reach me right at the time I start having doubts. And then I find an email from you referring to my question.
Thank You
Don't worry when you are on the path you know. Remember there is no right or wrong just learning.
thank you for coming into my life, what a great teacher
Hi
I'm in China now going back home after the Chinese New Year, When I come to China I was promised alot of things that sounded nice to the mind.But it all changed,I was not given money I did not interact with others and when I demanded them to let me explore on my own, I fell in a trap of tamptation and took things that did not belong to me and that got me in trouble.For years I have known God to speak to me in many crayz ways show me things and I would tell people about it. My ideas would be used with the hard work i put in them, and I end up with nothing.This has been my life story since i can remember.I always told myself that I do what I do because I love it and it made me feel better, and that one day God will give me a plan of my own,
hi margaret
just want you to know you are not alone, you never will be keep reaching out. You know you are one with the universe. Thats how you were led to Shafins page
just another reader,
Paula
Where i like to read Shafins page i love reading the comments such as yours. you to are wise
fellow reader,
Paula
Hi Irma,
I have so many friends looking for love. When love is everywhere like you say. falling in love with each others goodness, you can feel love when a stranger smiles at you as he or she passes by, so many of us brainwashed with the expectation of romantic love. Seade O' Conner wrote a beautiful song about being in love with spirit sori cant think of the cd name i am away from home at the moment.
Paula
Thats the sad thing about this world we get sent off to school to be taught everything but spirituality, back in the day at least there was religion instruction i think it should be spiritual instruction we would have less teenage anger, competition and aggresion which is such apart of school culture. WE would be sending wholistic humans out into the world not materialistic & competitive and sadly spiritualiy deprived no wonder their are so many lost souls gettting around.
Paula
i love your honest reply jools'
we all do it!!!!!!!!!! perhaps dont be caught sleeping is exactly what you just discribed. being to busy to stay in the moment very busy doing other stuff.
Paula
so true. life is like riding a magic carpet at times we go kicking and screaming against change and things that happen to us , along the way.
Untill we look back and realize oh now i see
bless you for caring enough. you are this childs miracle.
SHAFIN i thankyou for your, patience,faith & guided action that you so generously and continually share with us. And to your many readers who share a peice of who they are with all of us. I have so many friends hooked on facebook and they often say to me why dont you get on it. You know id much rather have the patience to read ,your readers comments, and reply to them, i cant find a great deal of substance in the other, just my thoughts, it has its good points, i just wish more people talked about and shared their spiritual journey i think it would be enlightening especialy for those who just don't know.
thanku verymuch
Dear shafin,
thank s a million. i feel god guides me through you.
Dear Shafin, I am fortunate to find you here online. It is a blessing to meet some one who can talk something spiritual in a time like this on earth. Thank you VERY much.
Deepani
Hi Shafin,
This takes me beyond my own thoughts. It is moving from journey to journey in life that counts.
Better life,
Thank you Shafin…
Loved it
Extremely wise & inspirational words. Thank you Shafin.
Hi Shafin, This makes me purify mind and learn the value of 'Patince'.
Thanks a lot for your spiritual article.
Timing is everything, I was just reading a great book called "Uncommon HOPE" by Dr Kathleen Hall, she talks about have in her estimation hope is really Honesty, Optimism, Perserverence, En-Joy. She explains more about what you are talking about and more. I'd recommend it for your followers, Thanks for your insight. Sharon
I share your truth, and I have practised patience even in life situations where I wished for speedy results. However, I have been guided and have learnt there are reasons we are made to wait. Shafin, you are doing a divine job sharing truth to stimulate the unenlightened and encourage and endorse the enlightened. I will continue to be guided by you, a great teacher!
hey shafin loved wat you said …it so matched with what i always felt inside, and made my faith and patience stronger.
Hey there Shafin,
Hope you are doing well.I wanted to thank you once again for your wonderful present.I hope I'd have got information about you and REDEFINE YOUR LIFE package some months ago,my life would be much more interesting.But nothing has ever lost.I will regain everything back.And I thank you from the bottom of my heart.May you always be blessed by God and may we always be blessed by you.Once
again THANK YOU.
Anima
Thank you for your service to the world Purity of thought begets purity of action and regular practise let go of ones ego, trust that is total surrender
Thank You once again
Many thanks for very nice and truth explained above and I want to say as a Muslim Patience is very important part of our religiond and it is mentioned many times and experienced by all profits.
But we have to practice it more and more as we are always in harry and need quick results wich is not the optimum desires .
Deer loving SHAFIN,
I thank GOD for your breath of life and great mind HE has given you.The most precious and irreversible thing in this world is time! It's better than the puriest gold or silver .Thank you so much for spending your time with me! I'M a young Sothern Sudanese gentleman studing in Middle Earst University in Beirut, Lebanon.Your teaching about 'Miracles And Patience in a spiritual Life' has created a new chapter in my life.Thanks!
Dear Shafin,,
Thank you so much for all your mail….even I seldom reply but i always red all your mails but what u sent this really amazed me cause it remained me of my husband who passed away a few months ago after we married for 31 yrs
And what had written there was just like he always told me how to see life…so that i felt he is trying to comunicate with me through you
cause I'm facing my hardest time with my biggest lost in my whole life
Dyra
The Great Teacher wears many masks and communicates to us in many bodies. Glad you have found value in my work. Do follow the guidance that is coming through to you. Not everyone is lucky enough to hear the music or recognize the message.
Shafin
Hi Shafin,
Thank you for the message – God's message.
I think that it was especially for me.
My blessings,
Irene
I am grateful, to be open
to understand.We are the architects as you say
In our pass in life and those who we cross: gratitude,joy,a word of recovery,a glimpse of faith creates and multiply all virtues and deep truths,leading us to BE miracles and achieve them as well!
You are a treasure in this world
thank you,God Bless us all
Dear Dyra
I think of the love you had,the heart of treasured moments you keep,I pray God can show you the way to transform this pain in joy for yours and others
May be writing stories will help….im separating from my second husband and I feel hopeless sometimes to find or BE the right one..You have a gift ,and that never ever dies.Enjoy your love.Peace
Fernanda
thank you shafin for sharing you wisdom with us it is taking the sheaves off and opening the mind magnificent stuff
thanks sophie.
my name is sophie haley
Shafin, that was so beautiful, it touched my heart and I had a GREAT cry, I mean GREAT, it really inspired me and my afternoon is really better now. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOU SHARE;););) SHAFIN YOUR POSTINGS ARE GREAT, GREAT, GREAT;) THANK YOU AGAIN. YOU ARE TRULY BLESSED.
Thank you Shafin for this wonderful insight, I've read it once before, and read it once again.. It's like a map for me, whenever I get lost. God is really good for He sent an Angels in human form, to awaken others. God bless always. -bebzdelrosario
Hello Shafin,
Thankyou for sharing such wonderful information to the world. This is just what i needed at the moment. I get excited when i see something in my inbox from you. I feel extremly blessed having found such a brilliant teacher like yourself & from the bottom of my heart i thankyou.
Keep sharing with us all so we can spread the word
i have a arab collegue in my office and superior to me, he used to tell me "WAIT" whenever we face problems. and I found it is happening, the most difficult things we pass through!!! and I like to work now rather than earlier my feeling of "suffering". I feel my heart is so calm, eventhough my frustration comes out by ANGER some times, the frequency is reduced so much. as you said the miralce world MEDITATION is the right word or answer to our poblems.
A very guided and inspirational message. Thank you
Thank you Shafin for sharing this beautiful message. There is enough good going around for everyone to see and apply the guided action and the miracles will unfolded once your mind growth.
From a surrender, with faith, guided actions and ´´patience´´..thank you,
Since joining this site (not in mind when joined) came across a lot of things I liked, took printout, read regularily(not reading for last one and half month) and tried to follow and act.
I've very scattered activities. Unfocused. Lots of thought active in mind round the clock. While writing this there is a feeling that I can have a life like a straight bold line, purposeful. I can do it. I will do it. Shafin is helping me….. Keep helping…….one soul will get closure to pervading intelligence…..
Well done Shaffin. Also I would like to add few of my experiences with Lord. sometimes Father allow us to see the place He has already prepared for us. It is the most amazing place that I got the chance to visit twice. Heaven is huge and super.
Lets walk together step by step to our Father"s home.
thanks so mch for sharing this message..i know your one of the persons used by God to communicate with HIS people..and to show HIS love..you as GOds instrument to say the word of wisdom which you cant just hear to anyone in everyday of your life..for this..i thank GOD by showing HIS great love through you..
im just a silent reader of your letter whenever i open my e-mail..even if im not use to send a message and leave a coment but for once..here i leave a message to say..words is not enough to thank you for helping me and other people with your words of wisdom from GOd,,
You are very welcome May. I'm very touched by your response!
Shafin, Thanks!, Thanks! my friend!. I keep in me, inside my self ! every word from You!, every thought ! , every piece of knowledge! . Thanks! again.
Lorente.
Thank you. It is the missing puzzle part in the puzzle. I appreciate it so much.
i just felt that someone is reading upto me what i have forgotten. All this lies inside us, but we need time to time awakening. Thank You.